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Ways to add spice to your life

Do you feel that your sex life has been a bit dull recently and want to inject new excitement into your life? In a long-term relationship, it is normal to have flat periods, but this does not mean that there will be no sex life during the flat periods. Here are 10 ways to spice up your sex life and reignite your passion and desire for sex.

1. Pay attention to foreplay

Foreplay is not just an appetizer, it can make the body better sexually aroused and provide sufficient lubrication for the body. A good foreplay greatly enhances the sexual experience. Foreplay can bring you closer to each other and keep your body in a state of sexual excitement and tension. Therefore, we must pay attention to foreplay, which not only focuses on women’s sexual experience, but also reduces pain and discomfort in the subsequent process.

2. Schedule sex

Some people may think that sex is spontaneous and that arranging sex is too rigid. If we can fit a lot of things into our calendars, why not sex? Moreover, there are many benefits to arranging sex. Arranging sex can make the frequency of our sex life healthier and help maintain relationships. We can also make adequate preparations for this sexual intercourse in advance and give our partners a better experience. It can also keep us in a state of sexual excitement throughout the day and make us look forward to sex even more.

3. Share sexual fantasies

Many people may find it difficult to disclose their sexual fantasies to their partners. But if your partner is interested in your sexual fantasies, you're not missing out on something wonderful. What’s more, you can explore your sexual fantasies and explore your boundaries together. New excitement can also be discovered.

4. Sexting

Not only does sexting add excitement and novelty, but it also allows you to flirt with each other even when you're apart. Sexting can be used to create sexual arousal and tension, and although it's normal to feel awkward at first. So don’t be afraid and use your imagination!

5. Try new poses and scenarios

If you've had enough of missionary being boring, get away from the bed and try to unlock some new positions in new settings, such as next to the bathtub, on a chair, in the living room or even in the kitchen. Of course, you can also try it outdoors or in the car, but be careful not to disturb others. Choose a suitable time and place.

6. Role play

If you want to try something new, it's important to get your partner's permission. You can choose an appropriate time to talk about role playing with your partner and show her your interest. If your partner isn't interested or refuses, it's important to respect your partner's opinion and set up a safe word before you start. If you are just starting to try role-playing and don't know what role to play, you can choose the one you like from the following ones, such as doctors, nurses and patients, police and criminals, masters and slaves, photographers and models, etc. Create your own story settings and scenes.

7. Use sex toys

Today, we have a wide variety of sex toys to choose from, from colors and materials to sizes. We can all find something that suits our needs. It's also a simple and effective way to add spice to your life, whether you're single or in a relationship. Those with a partner can use sex toys as a tool to assist foreplay, and of course they can also be used in conjunction with other sex toys.

8. Create a sexy playlist

Sexy music can bring a sense of atmosphere and increase sexual excitement. It can bring excitement and spice to the bedroom, so creating a sexy playlist is important. You can also create a sexy playlist with your partner by selecting songs that you both find sexy.

9. Wear sexy lingerie

If you want to spice up your sex life, buying a new set of sexy lingerie is well worth the investment. Wearing sexy underwear can not only quickly ignite sexual desire and increase freshness and excitement, but also allow us to enjoy the moment better and more focused.

10. Temperature play

Temperature games are mainly divided into candle games and ice cube games. Which one you choose depends on your preference. Of course, if you want to experience the ultimate feeling of alternating hot and cold, my suggestion is to alternate between dripping wax and ice cubes. Especially in the coming summer, I believe ice cube games will be even more popular.

Final thoughts

Of course, there are more ways to add interest to life than these. But if you feel that your current sex life lacks passion, you can try the above methods.

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