It's normal to feel bored and bored in a long-term romantic relationship. Injecting some new spice and ideas can rekindle the spark between you. Use your imagination and creativity in bedroom play to explore new interests and preferences and enhance your sexual experience.
Why is sex important?
Research shows that sex helps keep us healthy, relieves stress and anxiety, improves sleep quality, and reduces the risk of some diseases. And more importantly, it can also enhance intimacy with your partner and strengthen each other's emotions.
1. Express your needs to your partner more easily
By trying new things in the bedroom, you can better understand what you like and don't like, and you can better understand each other's desires, likes and dislikes. At the same time, the process of exploring new things is also interesting. You can better communicate with your partner about sex, and expressing your needs can make the relationship more open.
2. Experience better orgasms
Trying new things will allow each other to understand their own preferences, likes and dislikes, discover their own sensitive areas, obtain faster and more intense orgasms, and improve their sexual life and sexual experience. At the same time, the hormones released during orgasm also make people feel happy and closer to each other.
Remember that orgasm is not the goal of sex. Don't focus too much on reaching orgasm and the number of orgasms. Focus on each other's experience during sex.
3. Closer relationships
Exploring new things can increase communication with each other, cultivate intimacy and bring each other closer. Exploring new things can also heighten sexual arousal and tension.
4. Discover unique sexual needs
As you explore, you may discover new preferences, try new positions and scenarios, incorporate sex toys, or explore each other's sexual fantasies. more helpful in exploring each other’s boundaries and
5. Be more confident
Discussions about sex and sharing one another's sexual preferences and fantasies are a very personal matter. You may be shy at first, or feel insecure, but try new things with your partner and communicate more about sex. It will reduce the shame about sex, improve the acceptance of sex, and make you more confident about sex.
6. Stay positive about sex
Trying new things in bedroom play can make us more positive about sex, more courageous to talk about and explore sex, try behaviors we have never done before, and better use our imagination and creativity.
7. Increase intimacy and connection with your partner
The most significant benefit of trying something new is increased physical intimacy and connection with each other. This is important for couples in long-term romantic relationships who tend to get bored and uninterested in routine as a way to get back the spark in each other.
8. Exciting and fresh
Trying new things in bedroom play can keep each other in a state of excitement and nervousness. There are so many new ideas to try in the bedroom, such as trying role play, BDSM, exploring sexual fantasies, sensory play, etc. Don’t be afraid to bring up your thoughts and ideas with your partner. Trying new ideas can keep things fresh and exciting during sex.
Sex thoughts and ideas to try
- Sexual wish list: By making a sexual wish list, you can better understand each other's sexual preferences, and better record and save them. Even if there are new changes, they can be recorded easily. Create more possibilities and record good ideas in a timely manner.
- Hotel slumber party: Changing the sex scene and environment can increase freshness and excitement and improve the sexual experience.
- Sexy Truth or Dare: In the process of the game, it is not only exciting but also increases mutual intimacy and understands each other better.
- Buy a sexy gift: Giving your partner a sexy gift can not only add interest, but also give your partner a surprise and look forward to using it during subsequent sex life.
- Give each other a sensual massage: Giving each other a sensual massage can not only relax your body and mind, but also relieve fatigue and stress. Also works as a great foreplay idea for quicker sexual arousal. Is there anything sexier than running your hands all over your partner's body?
- Sending sexy text messages: Sending sexy text messages can arouse interest, tease your partner, and maintain sexual excitement for a long time. Even if you are in a different place, you can also flirt in this way.
- Make a sexy playlist: A sexy playlist can change the atmosphere in the bedroom, increase each other's sexual desire, and get into a better state. Make sex more fun.
- Try new sex toys: There are a variety of sex toys with different types and functions, so you can choose to try some categories that you have never tried before. For example, BDSM props, butt plugs, cock rings, wands, dildos, etc.