9 Kinky Sex Ideas Worth Trying

9 Kinky Sex Ideas Worth Trying

It's normal for people in long-term romantic relationships to get stuck in a boring routine. It's time to add new ideas and inject new energy into your sex life. And trying new things can not only bring you a sense of freshness, but also bring you closer to each other, ignite desires, etc. 

Before you start trying new ideas and sexual activities, the most important thing is to have a sincere conversation with your partner, express your desires and demands, get their consent, and respect their boundaries.

Here are some kinky sex ideas worth trying

1. Try outside the bedroom

If you feel bored and uninterested in sex in the bedroom or on the bed, try a new scenario to change the situation. For example, in the bathroom, living room, terrace, kitchen, car, or even in the park, any scene you want to try that excites you, but if you try outdoor sex, choose a quiet place with few people and protect your body. Security and privacy.

2. Try bondage

If you want to experiment with restraints on yourself or your partner, try starting with something everyday, such as a blindfold, scarf, or tie. to amplify the sensory experience and make you feel more nervous and excited. If this makes you feel good, try buying a beginner’s kink set to help you enjoy your bondage play better.

3. Candle Game

Want to try the stimulating feeling of warm wax oil dripping on your skin? So why not try the candle game? If you are a newbie, don't use ordinary candles, which may cause burns, use candles specifically made for candle games. Soy candles are the most suitable candles for beginners. At the same time, be careful to avoid the head, genital area, and places with a lot of hair.

4. Sensory play

Sensory play can stimulate different feelings and lead to sexual arousal. There are many kinds of sensory play. Temperature play, sensory deprivation, and shock play all belong to the category of sensory play, such as tickling, ice cube play, spanking,  etc. 

5. Orgasm control

Orgasm control, also known as edge play. It is achieved by controlling the stop before orgasm and repeating it several times to achieve a more violent orgasm. Orgasm control is not something that can be mastered in one go. It requires constant practice to better control your orgasm. Of course, you can use sex toys to practice orgasm control, freeing your hands and achieving more intense orgasms.

6. Fetish

Do you feel excited and attracted to a specific item or a certain part of your body? Fascination with body parts is quite common. You can try touching, massaging or watching videos to make yourself excited. If you don't know if you have a particular fetish for something, you can try watching porn to discover and find your preferences.

7. Use sex toys

Nowadays, sex toys are more and more common in bedrooms, and sex toys have become an indispensable part of some people’s lives. And there are many choices of sex toys. If you want to buy your first sex toy and have no clue, I recommend rose sex toys to you. They not only have a beautiful and hidden appearance, but you don’t have to worry about being caught. People suspect it is a sex toy, and it has powerful functions. It has dual stimulation of sucking and vibration, giving you a stimulating experience like oral sex.

8. Use a mirror

The full-length mirror has more than one use. It is also a good choice to use it as a sex prop. To a certain extent, it can satisfy the desire for exposure or peeping. In this way, not only can you observe the entire process, but you can also observe your partner's expressions and reactions. In the process, you can use dirty words to tease your partner and take the experience to a new level.

9. Make a sex list

If you usually have some interesting sex ideas but are shy about initiating them, you might as well write them down and make a list to find a good time to communicate with your partner. Make sure you agree with and respect your partner's boundaries.

Aftercare

No matter what new sex style you choose to try, aftercare is important. Whether it is cleaning your partner's body or taking care of your partner psychologically and spiritually, you must pay attention to it. Giving your partner a hug after sex, kissing your partner on the cheek, or communicating with your partner can all take good care of your partner's psychology. It's also considerate to offer your partner water and food after sex. Take a shower with your partner, give each other massages, etc. This is not only for each other's physical health, but also a way to bring each other closer to each other's feelings and intimacy.

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