In order to better celebrate International Masturbation Month, we will provide 11 ways to make your masturbation sexier, let us embrace our desires and please ourselves.
Masturbation is a completely normal thing and you don’t have to be ashamed of it. This is a simple way to explore how your body can experience pleasure. There is no "right" way to masturbate. Pay attention to your feelings and explore how you like it.
1. Know your body
It is well known that clitoral stimulation is essential for most women to reach orgasm. Therefore, to understand your body, you can learn some anatomy diagrams to better understand your body parts and sensitive points, and your favorite stimulating behaviors, such as internal or external. Do you prefer direct pressure or suction, or do you prefer dual internal and external stimulation?
2. Apply lubricant more widely
Don't limit lube to penetration, broaden your thinking. Lubricant can be applied to the vulva, sex toys, and as a massage oil to the body, etc. Applying lubricant to your fingers or sex toys can increase lubrication, make penetration easier, and increase clitoral pleasure.
If you are hesitant about which type of lubricant to choose, the most recommended is water-based lubricant, which is suitable for most sex scenes. It will not react with silicone sex toys or latex condoms to destroy them.
3. Consider foreplay
You should also consider foreplay when masturbating. Touching your own body or even non-sexual touch can be a good way to feel the pleasure brought by touch. You can try clothes of different textures to find the feeling you like.
4.Buttocks
Adding hip twerking to masturbation can increase blood flow to the genital area, increasing sensitivity and arousal.
5. Explore the whole body
Although the clitoris cannot be ignored when reaching orgasm, don't ignore other sensitive points on the body that can greatly enhance pleasure. For example, nipples, chest, thighs, waist, etc. Try different pressures and methods such as pinching, hitting, pulling, etc. to feel the sensations brought by different methods and pressures.
6. Add sex toys
It's undeniable that sex toys can bring more intense stimulation and more frequent orgasms, and they can also be hands-free, increasing the possibility of mixed orgasms. Try different sex toys to explore and better understand your own sensitive points.
Today, the development of the sex toy industry has given us a wide variety of choices. There are a dazzling array of sex toys of different types, materials, functions, and shapes. If you're buying your first sex toy and don't know where to start, a clitoral vibrator would be a good choice. If you like internal and external stimulation, a rabbit vibrator can be a good idea.
7. Edge games
Edge refers to pausing before reaching orgasm, letting your excitement subside a little, continuing to stimulate, and repeating it several times to achieve a more violent orgasm. Don't be discouraged if you don't have good control at first, this is normal. Edge is a practice that requires repeated practice to gain better control.
8. Watch pornography
Watching pornographic works can arouse emotions, increase sexual excitement and tension, and put the body into a better state. You can also use pornography as foreplay for masturbation. Visual and auditory stimulation can change the rules of the game and bring new excitement and experience.
Watching porn can also broaden your perspective on sex. Explore sexual fantasies to satisfy fantasies you can't realize in real life and better understand your preferences.
9. Shower head
Masturbating in the bathroom can be a great way to cleanse. Use some small items to increase the atmosphere. For example, light scented candles, play sexy music, or even prepare delicious wine and food. Use the water flow from the shower head to move across the sensitive area, feel the different pressures and speeds of the water flow, and find your favorite strength and angle, so you can enjoy it better.
10. Temperature Game
Understand whether your body prefers cold or heat, or a combination of both. You can try using the feeling of ice cubes sliding down your body to stimulate your sensitive areas. Or combine temperature games with sex toys. Put the sex toys in ice water or heat them for a few minutes. Before you start trying, take the temperature on the back of your hand to avoid hurting yourself.
11. Try new sex positions
Whether you always masturbate while lying on your back, try a new position or a new scene. Don't underestimate how much fun this little change can bring. Different postures can bring about different feelings. For example you can try on a chair, cowgirl, on all fours, etc. Adding a bit of adventure can increase anticipation and make the experience more enjoyable.